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    The need for a secular sabbath

    “If you dread a day of rest from the digital world, then you probably need one.” –Sharon Samiento

    Most of my daily life is plugged in to technology. I spend a minimum of 10 hours a day working, sitting at a desk, utterly focused on my computer and cellphone. When I’m “off the clock,” many of life’s pleasures also take place in front of screens: writing, reading on a Kindle, watching movies or Netflix, browsing the internet or playing video games.

    Such a technology-based life feeds my curiosity — and pays the bills — but when combined with the madness of the news cycle, it can be hell on the body and soul. I don’t breathe normally anymore, in that I have to remind myself to do it, deeply and purposefully, or else the air I consume is shallow. Sitting upright in a chair takes mindfulness; the posture of slumped shoulders is so easy to assume when you’re focused outside of your body.

    I crave quietness more than I used to, quietness of environment and of the mind. At least for a little while.

    So, I’m going to reclaim a day each week to unplug and decompress. Abby Falik takes a similar secular sabbath. The founder and CEO of Global Citizen Year, a nonprofit that channels teenage wanderlust toward social good, recently told the Books of Your Life podcast that the practice had made her more productive in the rest of her life.

    Just what will I do with that day? Why, I’ll read, of course, but books in a dead-tree format (paperback and hardcover) rather than an electrical one (audio and ebooks). I’ll bake new recipes instead of just collecting ideas from food blogs. I’ll write letters and poems, stories and novels in longhand; such scribblings can easily be transcribed into the computer later for editing purposes. And, I’ll do my best to get outside more. As a writer, it’s so easy to become homebound and isolated. Yet inspiration comes from outside forces as well as imaginative ones.

    Trying new activities, exploring unknown places and generally saying yes to non-techy adventures will, I hope, make me a little less stressed and a lot more inspired.

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    Quote of the day

    “Writers are like dancers, like athletes. Without that exercise, the muscles seize up Exercise the writing muscle every day.” –Jane Yolen

  • Typewriter - Once upon a time

    Quote of the day

    “Remember that pianist who said that if he did not practice every day, he would know, if he did not practice for two days, the critics would know, after three days, his audience would know. A variation of this is true for writers. Not that your style, whatever it is, would melt out of shape in those few days. But what would happen is that the world would catch up with and try to sicken you. If you did not write every day, the poisons would accumulate and you would begin to die, or act crazy, or both. You must stay drunk on writing so reality cannot destroy you.” –Ray Bradbury

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    Mark my words v.2

    As I’ve mentioned before, I’m drawn to certain words. The attraction is often a word’s meaning or spelling, but sometimes I just like the way a word rolls off my tongue. Here are more of my favorites:

    Moonstruck

    Codswallop

    Doozy

    Philatelist

    Rigamarole

    Selkie

    Egads

    Sassafras

    Gallipoli

    Shenanigans

    Ephemeral

    Sesquipedalian

    Triskelion

    Pamplemousse

    Ganache

    Spellbound

    Gadzooks

    Finagle

    Adagio

    Tchotchke

    Debauchery

    Haboob

    Skedaddle

    Thunderstruck

    Lycanthrope

    Archipelago

    Hullabaloo

    Virtuoso

    Cattywampus

    Discombobulate

    Hoodwink

    Malarky

    Balderdash

    What are some of yours?

    –Photo by dubassy


  • In 2018, I resolve…

    While the timing may be arbitrary, making resolutions is a lovely practice. Doing so encourages self-reflection, a belief that one can change for the better and a desire to try new things. Sure, such goals may end unsuccessfully a day or month later, but giving resolutions “the old college try” could lead to promising results.

    This year, I resolve:

    To experience at least seven hours of sleep a night. As a lifelong workaholic and occasional insomniac, I rarely sleep enough. When I was 20, sleeplessness was not a big deal. In my mid-40s, my body and mind demand a recharge and I shall no longer feel ashamed by this need.

    Read at least 50 books by Dec. 31. I generally do so anyway, but last year, I was just a bit short. Reading is one of my greatest pleasures. Why should I deprive myself?

    Write more — and revel in make-believe. For nearly three decades, I’ve written and edited nonfiction for a living. Although my journalism career thrived, my imagination atrophied and now writing fiction and poetry is much more difficult. This year, I will dedicate more time and energy to exercising this muscle.

    Practice hygge. According to Meik Wiking, author of “The Little Book of Hygge: Danish Secrets To Happy Living” and the CEO of The Happiness Research Institute in Copenhagen, hygge (pronounced hoo-ga) is all about appreciating the simple pleasures in life. It is a lifestyle that revolves around coziness, community, contentment and reveling in quiet comforts. Some of the hyggeligt things that already bring me happiness include:

    * Spending time with my husband and pets

    * Sharing meals and/or playing games with friends

    * Reading

    * Cooking and baking, particularly from scratch

    * Hot beverages (coffee, tea, cocoa)

    * Silent Book Club meetings

    * Soft and warm lighting

    * Sitting in a comfortable chair and reading or watching TV/movies

    * Warm sweaters, wool socks, scarves

    * Flannel sheets and heavy, soft blankets

    * Fire from candles or fireplaces

    * Appreciating natural beauty by watching snow fall, listening to thunderstorms, staring at ocean waves or smelling fresh flowers

    * Indulging in desserts

    * Dwelling in darkness

    Due to some of the stressful elements in my life (I’m looking at you, 24-hour news cycle), happiness can sometimes feel fleeting. Yet I am fairly healthy. I’m loved by family, friends and animals. And I have a beautiful home that’s located in a part of the world with fresh air and four distinct seasons. I simply need to keep the more negative aspects of my career from weighing down my spirit. In short, I’m going to embrace hygge.

    What do you resolve to change in 2018?