• Watch it: A guide to the perfect timepiece

    watchMany people don’t wear watches anymore. Why bother when the time is available on nearly every technical gadget known to mankind?

    I’m not wed to my cellphone, though. And there are occasions when I actually step away from my computer. It is during those moments that I like to wear a watch. I just prefer having immediate access to Time.

    That said, I do admit to having a few specific requirements for my time-keeper.

    First of all, I prefer to wear men’s watches. They’re larger (I’m nearly blind), less bling-y (I’m not flashy) and more comfortable since the band tends to be wider (comfort is king… err, queen).

    I require a watchband that’s black, dark brown or silver, and it should never catch on my arm hair.

    The face of the timepiece must have a scratch-resistant surface, and present an analog countenance. I learned to tell time on an actual clock, and wearing a digital watch feels like cheating. Sadly, my alarm clock is digital, and years of staring at its face in an insomnia-induced stupor has instilled a serious dislike for those shiny, neon digits.

    So, I like a big man’s watch with a wide band and an analog face. But those aren’t my only requirements. I also prefer arabic numerals to roman ones. The numbers should be in a large serif font, and all 12 digits ought to be visible.

    As for extras, I like to keep things simple. The only additional accoutrements I want on a watch are: moon phases, calendars and a second hand.

    Above all, the watch needs to be accurate.

    How do you like to tell time?

  • 2013: The Year In Review

    At the end of the year, I always take a moment to examine the ups and downs I experienced, both personally and professionally. What follows is my accounting of 2013:

    * Produced hundreds of breaking news stories, including the resignation of Pope Benedict XVI, the intensive manhunt for the Boston Marathon bombers and countless mass shootings.

    * Blogged for The Obituary Forum, The Blog of Death, Hooked From The First Page and Afterthoughts.

    * Passed the 29,000th tweet mark on my personal Twitter account (@jadewalker) and received the “I’m real” checkmark of verification.

    * Penned 60 journal entries.

    * Worked on my novel.

    * Purchased a Fitbit, increased my daily steps/stairs and cut back on my sleep debt. Also started using FitBolt to decrease time spent sitting.

    * Subscribed to the HelloFresh and Plated food services, then cooked a ton of delicious dishes.

    * Read 38 books and countless magazines.

    * Watched more than 30 films.

    * Took classes in archaeology, disaster preparedness, health/nutrition, literature and photography.

    * Launched The 10th Muse, a mailing list of writing prompts.

    * Updated The Written Word.

    * Participated in the New York City Writers Group, the South Florida Freelancers Group and the Journalism & Women Symposium.

    * Attended The Society of Professional Obituary Writers (SPOW) conference in Canada and launched the group’s private Facebook page.

    * Created a YouTube video about the future of obituaries.

    * Featured in a CNN article about obituaries.

    * Profiled on JobShadow.

    * Built websites for my husband and grandfather.

    * Redesigned The SPOW website as well as my own.

    * Went house-hunting in New Hampshire, Vermont and Maine.

    * Dyed my hair red.

    * Traveled to Burlington Vt., New York City, Toronto and Scotland.

    * Visited the monument to Phineas Gage.

    * Tended a garden of basil, oregano, catnip, romaine lettuce, mint, thyme and flowers.

    * Dealt with the libelous rantings of a couple of cyber-trolls (yes, lawyers were involved).

    * Saw Stephen King, Sting and Stuart McLean in person.

    * Leased a new car.

    * Perfected my versions of fudge, chocolate drop cookies, carrot cake, chicken pilaf and lasagna.

    * Celebrated my 4th wedding anniversary.

    * Turned 40.

    * * *

    End of the yearPlans/goals for 2014

    * Save up enough money for a down payment on a house.

    * Write more snail mail letters.

    * Work on my books.

    * Write more obits.

    * Write more poetry/short stories.

    * Experience fewer migraines.

    * Eat more fruits and vegetables.

    * Exercise.

    * Win the lottery.

  • The 10 biggest news stories of 2013

    These are my picks:

    Syrian refugee crisis
    Photo by Joel Carillet. Used with permission.

    1. The bloody civil war in Syria, which has claimed more than 100,000 lives since 2011, finally gained the attention of world leaders when Syrian President Bashar Assad allegedly ordered government troops to use chemical weapons on the country’s citizens. Hundreds of people died in the attacks and thousands more suffered from exposure. To date, the conflict has displaced 5 million Syrians internally and forced more than 2.2 million to become refugees. At least 150 journalists also have been killed while covering the war.

    2. Super Typhoon Haiyan, a Category 5 storm, hit the Philippines in early November. A month later, the death toll passed 6,000. More than 27,000 people were injured and nearly 1,800 were reported missing. The homes of more than 16 million people were either flattened or damaged by the typhoon. Rebuilding the country is expected to take at least three years.

    3. The bombings at the Boston Marathon claimed three lives, injured 264 people and prompted a massive manhunt for the terrorists. The suspects, Dzhokhar and Tamerlan Tsarnaev, then allegedly engaged in a deadly crime spree that ended when the police killed Tamerlan and captured his brother. Dzhokhar is currently being held at a federal medical center while awaiting trial.

    4. Edward Snowden vs. the NSA: Snowden, a former computer technician and CIA contractor, stole classified documents and released many of them to the press. The files detailed the U.S. government’s massive surveillance program, which not only spied on potential terror targets but also millions of unsuspecting Americans and foreign dignitaries.

    5. The Popes: When Benedict XVI announced his resignation in February, the world was stunned because no pope had resigned from office in nearly 700 years. However, with the March election of Francis, the Catholic Church was revitalized. The first non-European pope in 1,200 years, Francis was admired for his work with the poor, his nonjudgmental attitude toward gays and atheists and his goal of healing a religious institution harmed by infighting and years of sexual abuse scandals. Francis was named “Person of the Year” by TIME magazine.

    6. Mass killings — which involve four or more victims not including the killer — occurred 30 times in the U.S. this year. The deadliest incident happened at the Navy Yard, and claimed 12 lives.

    7. The death of Nelson Mandela on Dec. 5 prompted a period of mourning worldwide. The beloved anti-apartheid revolutionary, politician and philanthropist won the 1993 Nobel Peace Prize and was the first black president of South Africa.

    8. DOMA/Prop 8 decisions: The Supreme Court struck down a key provision of the Defense of Marriage Act that denied federal benefits to same-sex couples. The justices also dismissed the Proposition 8 case, which banned same-sex marriage in California, claiming the defendants had no standing in court. In 2013, California, Delaware, Hawaii, Maryland, Minnesota, New Jersey and Rhode Island all legalized gay marriage. Illinois also passed a law legalizing same-sex marriage, but it will not take effect until June 1, 2014.

    9. The U.S. government shut down on Oct. 1 after Congress failed to enact legislation appropriating funds for fiscal year 2014 and refused to agree upon a continuing resolution. During the 16-day shutdown, approximately 800,000 federal employees were furloughed, and another 1.3 million were required to report to work without pay.

    10. The Westgate shopping mall attack in Nairobi, Kenya, began when several unidentified gunmen entered the structure and took hostages. The attack lasted for four days and claimed 72 lives, including 61 civilians. More than 200 people were also wounded. The Islamist group al-Shabaab later claimed responsibility for the attack.

    (Other big stories of the year include: The coup against Mohamed Morsi, Egypt’s first democratically-elected president; the Supreme Court decision striking down the heart of the Voting Rights Act of 1965; NASA’s release of a map containing over 1,400 “potentially hazardous astroids” for Earth; the crash of Asiana Airlines Flight 214 in San Francisco; the trial of George Zimmerman for the slaying of Trayvon Martin; and the birth of Prince George of Cambridge.)

  • My top 10 favs of 2013: A year spent reading and watching some truly fantastic stuff

    MY FAVORITE BOOKS
     

    1. “The Night Circus” by Erin Morgenstern
    2. “N0S4A2” by Joe Hill
    3. “Doctor Sleep” by Stephen King
    4. “Drama” by John Lithgow
    5. “Letters From Skye” by Jessica Brockmole
    6. “The Ocean at the End of the Lane” by Neil Gaiman
    7. “Front Row at the White House: My Life and Times” by Helen Thomas
    8. “The Intercept” by Dick Wolf
    9. “The Letter: My Journey Through Love, Loss and Life” by Marie Tillman
    10. “Dead Harvest” by Chris F. Holm

    (Honorable mentions: “Extremis” (The Last Assassin) by Barry Eisler, “The World’s Strongest Librarian: A Memoir of Tourette’s, Faith, Strength, and the Power of Family” by Josh Hanagarne, “Watchdogs of Democracy?: The Waning Washington Press Corps and How It Has Failed the Public” by Helen Thomas, “Because I Said So!: The Truth Behind Myths, Tales and Warnings Every Generation Passes Down to its Kids” by Ken Jennings, “Vermont Curiosities: Quirky Characters, Roadside Oddities & Other Offbeat Stuff” by Robert Forrest Wilson, “The Letters of E.B. White, Revised Edition” by E.B. White, “The Wrong Goodbye” by Chris F. Holm and “The Big Reap” by Chris F. Holm)

    MY FAVORITE TV SHOWS
     

    1. NCIS
    2. Supernatural
    3. America’s Test Kitchen/Cook’s Country
    4. Leverage
    5. The Good Wife
    6. Scandal
    7. Grimm
    8. Castle
    9. Burn Notice
    10. Chuck

    (Honorable mentions: House of Cards, Once Upon A Time, Gray’s Anatomy, Haven, The Following, Revenge and Sleepy Hollow)

     

    MY FAVORITE MOVIES
     

    1. The Butler
    2. We Bought A Zoo
    3. Gravity
    4. Ironman 3
    5. Zero Dark Thirty
    6. Quartet
    7. The Company You Keep
    8. World War Z
    9. Now You See Me
    10. Beautiful Creatures

    (Honorable mentions: Warm Bodies, Monsters University, Last Vegas, Thor: The Dark World and Red 2)

  • Speaking of gift guides…

    I feel the need to call out the “Holiday Gift Guide” published on BOOKish.

    For those of you who may be unfamiliar with the site, BOOKish launched earlier this year to promote books published by Hachette Book Group, Penguin Group and Simon & Schuster*. I subscribe because I like receiving reviews and excerpts from new releases.

    The recently published guide, which features recommendations from the site’s editors, claims to help you “find the right book gift for everyone on your list.” This is a worthy goal. However, if some of the gift categories are any indication, the site’s editors need a serious lesson in sexism.

    Under the “For Him” category, there are book suggestions for political junkies, history buffs, sports fans, comic book collectors, music mavens and film buffs.

    Under the “For Her” category: Books about parenting, sex, romance, cooking, being a good hostess and bibles.

    Did I miss something or have we time-warped back to the 1950s?

    BOOKish, please fix this guide. You’re doing a great disservice to your readers by assuming women care nothing about politics, history, comics, sports, music, film or, you know, the world outside of the home. Oh, and if the massive restaurant industry is any indication, your male readers probably want to become “kitchen maestros,” too.

    * Transparency note: My husband once worked for Simon & Schuster and had nothing but good things to say about the place.